As per the psychological definition would suggests, social anxiety is in which a person has an excessive and unreasonable fear of social situations that can be categorized as intense nervousness and self-consciousness arise from a fear of being closely watched, judged, and criticized by others. There are many apparent reasons one could be so vulnerable to such emotional alignment and fortunately there are many therapeutic and treatment options availed to get over such complication. Some of the common factors like negative deeds happen in past that still hold effects like cringe, regrets, repression and guilt, or being informed about mishaps, and in most cases other emotional alignments like low self-esteem, inferiority complex and so on.
Needless to say, it can cause many other health related complications like low immunity and metabolism, prone to cause serious health conditions and if it is left unattained for longer time then person have probability to develop suicidal tendencies. Indeed getting medical help should be prime priority to fix it, but following are some handy tips that can be helpful to tame early social anxieties with ease.
Jot down anxieties: it is always better to start with fresh page and to begin erase out what you have. Writing down anxieties would help your mind be little free to ease down the intensity of such factor. It works as while writing down you are reviewing the thoughts in slightly third person manner and such overview help easing up the situation.
Talk more about in positive about it: In most cases, perquisite inhibitions plays major role in forming and developing social anxieties and such factor can be neutralized by just talking and nitpicking brighter side of an anxious situation and taking more about it. In such condition you can also converse with the person who has been through that situation and also you can mind those who criticize such situation for being big deal, as they have lighter approach of such situation. Though it could be trick, but sense of humor could be a helpful tool to neutralize and give a lighter outlook, but only if used in careful manner!
Keep totems: Totems are tiny, can-be-carried handy objects that hold a symbolic meaning and reminds of a particular thoughts. In case of social anxiety, such trick can be useful to keep totem that reminds of a positive memories or thought, so be it a pendent, picture, or even a small token or coin. The idea behind that is to distract you from feeling anxious and feel at is that everything is alright and will be in that way.
Keep someone close: well this is the time to call a friend that would be there in deed! Such tip also work on a same basis as any distraction would work, but in such instance it can be even more helpful as a friend or companion would be a moral support and someone to make you feel at ease while you are in an awkward situation!
Learn to Meditations: Medication is always being helpful in managing emotional alignment and even some mental disorder, as it gives better control over emotional gears and maneuver emotion as per your needs. Simple breathing exercise of taking deep breath can ease the anxious pressure built up and medication on regular basis can be give better psychological tolerance level while maintaining mental peace.
Have a rational thinking: Indeed it is the best way to loosen up mental pressure you have about a particular situation and also frees your mind to come out with solutions and way to deal with it. And in case of social anxiety, where for a person it is big deal to deal with such factors, rationalizing it would come handy.
There are many ways you can encounter such alignments and in case if you feel insufficient to deal with such problem, then it is wise to seek medical help, before it gets worst and cause phobia or cause depression.